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From: cooleyra@clutx.clarkson.edu (Pixel,,,)
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Subject: Re: exit
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Date: 17 Jan 90 02:25:16 GMT
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From article <401.25adfe39@uoft02.utoledo.edu>, by cswaf@uoft02.utoledo.edu:
> Hi...this may or may not be the appropriate place to post this,
> but I'll give it try...
> 
> I have been involved in a relationship with a man for 5 years now
> and have enjoyed it very much, except for the fact that he is married.

This is usually *not* a good situation to get into.

> I have found myself lately wanting a more involved relationship (i.e.
> more than 5-6 hours a week ). I love him very much but he also loves
> his wife. We have the greatest sexual relationship and I wish it could
> last but I can't emotionally handle more than one relationship.. I like
> to devote my time and energy to only one man.
> Well he says that I am
> stupid that sex between two people never lasts very long,
I should hope he's wrong!
> that you get 
> bored or one of the two people loses some of their sexual desire and
> so the other person is left wanting more all the time. He says that I 
> should just face reality and enjoy sex with him and find another man
> to fill in the remaining times I need someone for movies, dinners, more
> sex etc. He also says that most people don't enjoy sex, and that the fact
> that I do and want to experience it to the fullest is going to cause
> me problems because I'll find that most men don't put that much importance
> on sexual relationships. And he also swears that men hit 40 (he's 44) and
> start getting very tired and women do around 35 (I'm 33)... the way
> I feel I can't believe I only have two years before I find knitting
> more fulfilling ? So any comments?

I think you've been handed one *hell* of a lie.  Dump him.


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