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From: claude@salt.acc.com (Peter Grand)
Newsgroups: alt.sex,soc.singles
Subject: Sincere man, interested in marriage, seeks honest woman
Keywords: Committment, Responsibility, Integrity
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Date: 19 Jan 90 20:26:47 GMT
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Reply-To: claude@salt.acc.com (Peter Grand)
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**** Sincere Man, Interested in Marriage, Seeks Honest Woman ****

I am a young man who wants to meet a woman who is
interested in marriage and raising a family.
Because I work in an engineering firm, meeting women on
the job is uncommon.  I cannot tolerate going
to "health clubs" and doing aerobics, as I've never felt comfortable
being led as a member of a herd.  Also, I am already studying
engineering classes after work so, taking additional classes (to
meet women) is the last way I want to spend my free time.

The only place I have reliably met women is in the bar scene.  
Unfortunately, the women I've met in bars have not proven to be 
worthwhile.  Most of them seem to have only one thing in mind.

The majority of the women I've met exagerrate the importance 
of their jobs. Moreover, I'll sometimes meet a woman who dresses as
if she is of extraordinary financial means (e.g. she'll 
be wearing an outfit that would cost me more than a week's wage),
yet when I get to know her better I learn of a bleak financial 
situation.  How can a women who spends a week's wage on an outfit to 
wear solely to a nightclub consider herself a candidate
for being a responsible wife and partner in the raising of a family?
One woman I met and dated owned a top-of-the-line new Mercedes-- on
a low-level secretary's salary.  Later I learned she was in debt $50K 
on top of the loan she got for her Mercedes.
When I asked her why she bought such an expensive car when she
was already in debt, she claimed that she just fell in love with the
car and "had to have it".

Question: Where can I meet an honest, responsible woman 
prepared to commit to raising a family?

Please don't tell me to try going to church, as I dislike
organized religions as much as organized sports.

Thanks for your help.