Path: utzoo!utgpu!jarvis.csri.toronto.edu!cs.utexas.edu!samsung!think!snorkelwacker!apple!sun-barr!newstop!male!warpten!harryu From: harryu@warpten.Central.Sun.COM (Harry Ugol) Newsgroups: alt.sex.bondage Subject: Re: sounds and shocks Message-ID: <1081@male.EBay.Sun.COM> Date: 19 Jan 90 23:47:49 GMT References: <9001192130.AA28200@june.cs.washington.edu> Sender: news@male.EBay.Sun.COM Organization: Sun Microsystems Inc. Lines: 61 In article <9001192130.AA28200@june.cs.washington.edu> wendyt@CS.WASHINGTON.EDU (Wendy Thrash) writes: > >Although many SM people are quite competent, careful, aware of sterile >technique, etc., not all of them are, not even all the ones who >play with dangerous things. One may not accept Flash's injunction to >avoid play with sounds completely, but one would be well advised to be >_really sure_ that one's tops or teachers know what they are doing. >I've seen unsafe technique in many areas from professional dominants >with ten years of experience. (No, I don't mean just sterile technique.) > Quite true, and a point that was (subconsciously) bothering me while I was writing my article, but I overlooked it in the interests of making a point. My mistake. Thanks, Wendy. One of the reasons I didn't make the point strongly enough is that for me it's an almost implicit assumption - yes, this stuff can be dangerous; as such, one should take every reasonable precaution to avoid needless hazard. The questions I'm still asking revolve around those words "reasonable" and "needless". Btw, while I'm correcting myself, I said I had a low opinion of human competence. What I meant to say, and should have said, was that in general I have a low opinion of human opinions; in my experience, human beings habitually fool themselves by ignoring the aspects of a situation which do not fit into their worldview. It's much the same process as in perception, where nerves are constantly focusing on important data and ignoring an unchanging (and therefore harmless) background. It's very efficient in the short run to ignore the aspects of a situation which may not fit into your assumptions - after all, questioning basic assumptions takes time and energy - but IMNSHO there are significant advantages in the long run to fighting the tendency. >P.S. My apologies if the headers are strange. looks OK to me... Article 1527 of alt.sex.bondage: Path: male!newstop!sun-barr!lll-winken!brutus.cs.uiuc.edu!usc!ucsd!ucbvax!CS.WASHINGTON.EDU!wendyt From: wendyt@CS.WASHINGTON.EDU (Wendy Thrash) Newsgroups: alt.sex.bondage Subject: Re: sounds and shocks Message-ID: <9001192130.AA28200@june.cs.washington.edu> Date: 19 Jan 90 21:30:33 GMT Sender: daemon@ucbvax.BERKELEY.EDU Lines: 33 References: <959@n7kbt.WA.COM> <1072@male.EBay.Sun.COM> <9734@hoptoad.uucp> <1079@male.EBay.Sun.COM> Reply-To: wendyt@june.cs.washington.edu (Wendy Thrash) Organization: University of Washington, Computer Science, Seattle PS - hugs and love to the Big Bad Wolf; Goldilocks and the rest of us miss you. Harry Ugol UUCP: {backbone}!sun!warpten!harryu ARPA: harryu@Ebay.sun.com "Rivendell household rule #1 (taken from Mark Twain): If you can't stand solitude, perhaps you bore others too."