Path: utzoo!attcan!uunet!jarthur!usc!snorkelwacker!mintaka!yale!bunker!hcap!hnews!129!89.0!David.Andrews From: David.Andrews@p0.f89.n129.z1.fidonet.org (David Andrews) Newsgroups: misc.handicap Subject: Re: Chances Are! Message-ID: <12559@bunker.UUCP> Date: 28 Jun 90 16:59:07 GMT Sender: wtm@bunker.UUCP Reply-To: David.Andrews@p0.f89.n129.z1.fidonet.org Distribution: misc Organization: FidoNet node 1:129/89.0 - BlinkLink, Pittsburgh PA Lines: 97 Approved: wtm@bunker.UUCP Index Number: 8974 [This is from the Blink Talk Conference] WW> Let me get this straight...Because I said that a person WW> sitting in the emergency seat that could read the WW> instructions might add to the chances of a safe exit, and I WW> even further state that it might not be a big advantage, but WW> at least a little bit, you question my faith in myself as a WW> blind person and in my fellow blind brothers and sisters??? WW> Well excuse me David, but you are so far off base with WW> this one I can hardly hide my wrath!!! I honestly just wanted WW> to let this one go as I suspected it would get nowhere, WW> because just as I surmised when I left my original, you WW> continue to see the whole issue only as an act of WW> discrimination against us and totally deny that there even WW> could be anyones safety in mind! I'm not sure that safety is WW> the only goal of the airlines in this matter, but I've WW> discussed this with our local NFB chapters president at length WW> and he sure as hell didn't question my self perception as a WW> blind person or my perception of blind people in general once WW> in his defense of the NFB position! Perhaps this is because WW> he knows me better than you, or perhaps because he is able to WW> recognize that a universal opinion by blind people on an issue WW> isn't related to one's self image, even if it was possible, WW> but since we're character slaughtering here... Why is it WW> you've been treated like a child as a blind person? This never WW> happens to me! Perhaps it is because I exhibit an air of WW> confidence at all times! I feel so bad for you, having to WW> endure all those poor misguided sighted people thinking of you WW> as needing help, and I'm just glad that I don't have to endure WW> that kind of treatment! David, obviously I know what you're WW> talking about, as I'm sure we all have been victims of WW> patronization at one time or another, but I'm amazed that you WW> could even suggest that my self perception or my perception of WW> blind people in general is at fault! If that is what WW> disagreeing with the NFB gets me, you're helping me make my WW> mind up very rapidly!!! Willie, It was certainly not my intent to assasinate your character. I was trying to make a general statement about what I see as a major problem with many blind people, but I did it poorly, and it came out too directed at you. I appologize for any offense I gave you. I was also guilty of striking out at you a little for what I see as apathy on the part of many blind people because you said you were tired of this issue. I appologize once again. Unfortunately, I suspect that we will never agree on this issue, but I appologize for personalizing it. What I was trying to say in part with a general statement is that I think that society believes that blind people are helpless by and large. They have conveyed these ideas to blind persons themselves and many of us have come to believe them ourselves. I can elaborate at another time if you wish, but I work for a Rehab agency and have taught in an Orientation Center and see this day after day. It was wrong of me to hang all this on you, because from what I know of you you do seem to have plenty of self confidence. I do not know you well enough to know how you feel about yourself and other blind persons. By the way, I am a person who has good skills, travel etc., and i conduct myself in a confident manner. In fact, many of my NFB friends have told me to slow down etc. I realize that you are assasinating my character because you were angry and hurt by what I said, but it is wrong of you to assume that I have been treated like a child because I act like a helpless blind person. I act just the opposite and still get that kind of treatment occasionally. While I know that the airline issue is not totally a civil rights issue, there are elements of a civil rights issue there. Some of the most compatent and confident travelers I know have been treated like children, arrested, etc. by airlines. If you look at the recent history of blind people, you will see many improvements. I think that parallels to the black civil rights movement can be drawn. Our lives have improved greatly since the 40's and 50's, but there is still a long way to go. Why are 70 percent of us still unemployed. Many people want to think of us as poor and helpless, including many professionals in the field, because they can then help us and feel superior. As a group, we are saying that we are as good as everyone else and deserve the same treatment. We are trying to break people's stereotypes of us. People don't like that. They resent us rocking the boat. I think that we are starting to see a backlash against what we have accomplished recently. There is likely to be a time of unpleasantness until we are able to take our place in society as equals. I suppose that many people aren't going to see it the way I do, and you all will think I am crazy. Well, so be it. In some ways, much of the recent legislation has increased our problems. In the sixties and early seventies, blind people traveled without incident. Tehn came 504 etc. and everybody thought that they had to do this and that for us. Now we have much new legislation, such as the ADA. Our needs are very different from the physically disabled, and when we are all lumped together, it is going to create more problems for us. You can't legislate change in attitudes, it has to happen one person at a time, and that is the big problem for blind people, the attitudes of socienty and those attitudes that they have conveyed to many blind people who are not as strong minded as you and I. I am sorry I went on so long, and I appologize for offending you, once again. I have always liked and respected you!!! hI do hope that I can give you a different prospective on things, not just turn you off. David Andrews ... Your Sound Alternative -- Uucp: ..!{decvax,oliveb}!bunker!hcap!hnews!129!89.0!David.Andrews Internet: David.Andrews@p0.f89.n129.z1.fidonet.org