Path: utzoo!utgpu!news-server.csri.toronto.edu!mailrus!cs.utexas.edu!uunet!ora!ora!daemon From: marla@lucerne.Eng.Sun.COM (Marla Parker) Newsgroups: soc.feminism Subject: Re: Name Change After Marriage Message-ID: <141298@sun.Eng.Sun.COM> Date: 24 Aug 90 16:45:50 GMT References: <220@sierra.STANFORD.EDU> <24409@megaron.cs.arizona.edu> <23824@dartvax.Dartmouth.EDU> Sender: ambar@ora.com (Jean Marie Diaz) Organization: Sun Microsystems, Mt. View, Ca. Lines: 19 Approved: ambar@ora.com In article <23824@dartvax.Dartmouth.EDU> llama@eleazar.dartmouth.edu (Joe Francis) writes: >their name. A friend of mine claims to be looking foward to >changing her name when married - she simply doesn't like her present >(last) name (and yes, she is considering changing it anyway, without >marriage). This is exactly what I did. Changing your name out of the blue just because you don't like it takes a bit of courage and more energy than it was worth to me. I never liked my old last name - Wilcox - and I welcomed marriage to someone with what I consider a good last name - Parker - as an easy way to get a better last name. If he'd been named Frankdoddle or something that I found worse than Wilcox, I would have kept Wilcox. I know its a good old English name, but I just never liked the sound of it. -- Marla Parker (415) 336-2538 marla@eng.sun.com