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From: Aaron.Feldman@f204.n260.z1.fidonet.org (Aaron Feldman)
Newsgroups: misc.handicap
Subject: Dating/Marriage
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Date: 20 Sep 90 16:03:48 GMT
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I am adressing this to you becasue you have been kind enough to be 
the ice breaker for me on the SIG. I would like to address the topic 
of marriage etc.  One of the biggest griefs in my life is that it is 
felt by my community that I must NOT marry given my condition. There 
is no one that will even make me an introduction. I am only able to 
work part time so my wages are meager and it is felt not sufficient 
for a family. It hurts me because the community in which I live I am 
the only single male I know of my age range (31). this makes it even 
harder to relate and be a part of the group. I have noted a tremendous 
change in myself these last 5 years because as one by one my friends 
have married off and the only people I know are single students who 
now seem to young to befriend as I had once before there is an alienation 
and emotional isolation that was not there before. well enough of my 
woes but if you or someone wants to pick up this topic I would appreciate 
it.

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