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From: Aaron.Feldman@f204.n260.z1.fidonet.org (Aaron Feldman)
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Subject: Re: Marriage/dating, etc.
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Date: 21 Sep 90 15:09:29 GMT
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Hello Linda,
Robert A. Scott is the author of that book. I am sorry to hear that you 
have had such a rough time. I think these times make us more 
understanding of others if they don't serve to kill off our finer 
instinsts first.  We are like the tender springtime especially when we 
are young are limbs are so fragile and vulnerable. I guess with each 
increase in age I somehow feel stronger, although I grieve the loss of 
my vulnerability in my youth. Anyway, to explain a little more I belong 
to a relgious group viz, Orthodox Jews, who belive in "arranged 
marriages" in the sense that one is introduced or that one does not just 
date for nothing (without marriage in mind). I have found *NO ONE* who 
has been willing to make such an inroduction or even who encourages my 
pursuit of a mate. The argument is usually money and perhaps there is a 
genetic factor etc etc. I think this is where much of my bitterness 
is..that no one will help *me try*. Good heraring from you, Aaron

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