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From: Nadine.Thomas@p59.f1.n360.z1.fidonet.org (Nadine Thomas)
Newsgroups: misc.handicap
Subject: Dating/Marriage
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Date: 3 Oct 90 14:31:17 GMT
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In a message to All <25 Sep 90  8:55:00> Sly Fox wrote:

 SF> hey ttfn how come you can do anything normal but never be able to
 SF> get bodily ladies huh.....my suggestion is open conversation,treat
 SF> them nicely tell these ladies you do adore them and need their help
 SF> for your satisfation (70 %) it will work as they will feel sorry
 SF> for ya!!! let me know how you did in

Sorry Sly Fox, but from personal experience I can tell you that
most women I Know will not play the GAME you suggest.

Being yourself and being HONEST and being REAL are the keys to
socialization for everyone - no one had to be special or have a
disability to do them - it is equal opportunity when it comes to
the keys.  That does not mean the results will necessarily be as
quickly as one who is abled-bodied but the results can be
obtained.

I am  not so silly as to think that women (or men) would be beating
down our doors but I do know there are wonderful people out there
who take people at their INNER strengths rather then outer "beauty"
or outer "perfection" and I would rather not take the chance of
turning them off by NOT being real.

Nadine

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