Path: utzoo!utgpu!news-server.csri.toronto.edu!cs.utexas.edu!yale!bunker!wtm From: mattioli@took.dec.com (John R. Mattioli) Newsgroups: misc.handicap Subject: Re: Dating/Marriage Message-ID: <14920@bunker.UUCP> Date: 12 Oct 90 01:49:45 GMT Sender: wtm@bunker.UUCP Reply-To: mattioli@took.dec.com (John R. Mattioli) Distribution: misc Organization: Digital Equipment Corporation Lines: 45 Approved: wtm@bunker.UUCP Index Number: 11063 In article <14645@bunker.UUCP>, Nadine.Thomas@p59.f1.n360.z1.fidonet.org (Nadine Thomas) writes... >Index Number: 10812 > >In a message to All <25 Sep 90 8:55:00> Sly Fox wrote: > > SF> hey ttfn how come you can do anything normal but never be able to > SF> get bodily ladies huh.....my suggestion is open conversation,treat > SF> them nicely tell these ladies you do adore them and need their help > SF> for your satisfation (70 %) it will work as they will feel sorry > SF> for ya!!! let me know how you did in > >Sorry Sly Fox, but from personal experience I can tell you that >most women I Know will not play the GAME you suggest. > I agree. Most women will not play those sorts of games and they shouldn't have to either. If it came down to a choice between somebody dating me because they felt sorry for me, and not dating anyone, I think I'd rather sit home in my living room doing nothing. But then there are the women who will complicate the picture. These are the few women who do feel sorry for you, yet are also very nice people that you'd like to date. These people "want" to help, they "enjoy" helping, you get along fine, you care about each other, but... Sudenly, for no good reason, this person will get tired of helping. Now where are you? You're dating nobody and you've gotten hurt. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- John Mattioli Most improved skier (american blind skiers association 1989) and humble to! (DEC E-NET) TOOK::MATTIOLI (UUCP) {decvax, ucbvax, allegra}!decwrl!TOOK.dec.com!MATTIOLI (ARPA) MATTIOLI@TOOK.dec.com MATTIOLI%TOOK.dec.com@decwrl.dec.com (US MAIL) John Mattioli 550 King St. LKG2-2/BB9 Littleton, Ma. 01460