Path: utzoo!utgpu!news-server.csri.toronto.edu!cs.utexas.edu!yale!bunker!hcap!hnews!115!778!Glen.Nielson From: Glen.Nielson@f778.n115.z1.fidonet.org (Glen Nielson) Newsgroups: misc.handicap Subject: Am I a son of a blinkie or what? Message-ID: <15022@bunker.UUCP> Date: 17 Oct 90 04:47:00 GMT Sender: news@bunker.UUCP Reply-To: Glen.Nielson@f778.n115.z1.fidonet.org Distribution: misc Organization: FidoNet node 1:115/778 - COPH-2 (BGMS), Chicago IL Lines: 27 Approved: wtm@bunker.UUCP Index Number: 11152 [This is from the Blink Talk Conference] Howdy Willie, Before getting to the main subject, let me say that I appreciate your work in making this echo work. It seems to me that blinks have a right to decline unneeded assistance. My view is that if someone offers to help me and I don't need the help, I have an obligation to politely decline the offer. I must admit that sometimes when this is the 20th offer I've had on a day, I don't do so good at meeting this goal, but I do try. On the other hand, if people just can't take no for an answer or if they're aggressive in offering help, my view is that all I can do is whatever it takes to get them to just leave me alone! I usually say something like "Are ya deaf or on drugs?" I am also not terribly polite to those who grab me. My favorite way of dealing with people who offer me a seat on a bus or train is to offer the seat to someone else. Many times, people who really wanted a seat have accepted my of1fer. Glen -- Uucp: ..!{decvax,oliveb}!bunker!hcap!hnews!115!778!Glen.Nielson Internet: Glen.Nielson@f778.n115.z1.fidonet.org