Path: utzoo!utgpu!news-server.csri.toronto.edu!rutgers!sun-barr!olivea!oliveb!bunker!wtm From: paa3188@dpscg1.uucp (Arthur Tehson) Newsgroups: misc.handicap Subject: Re: Am I handicapped? Summary: One answer to the question. Keywords: Lack of objective Message-ID: <15062@bunker.UUCP> Date: 19 Oct 90 03:42:22 GMT References: <14891@bunker.UUCP> Sender: wtm@bunker.UUCP Reply-To: paa3188@dpscg1.uucp (Arthur Tehson) Distribution: misc Organization: Defense Personnel Support Center, Philadelphia Lines: 23 Approved: wtm@bunker.UUCP Index Number: 11192 Dear M'Linda: I think I might be able to help you with your quandry. I am a mild CP with almost "normal" functional ability with the exception of being unable to perform intricate tasks with my left side, like holding a cup. My left leg is weaker and a bit shorter than the other, although I have no difficulty walking. My employer classifies me as handicapped, even though I function above 90%. I have lived with one foot in the " disabled" world and one foot in the "normal" world, literally, all my life and sometimes I get to thinking, like you, Am I handicapped(?). I think the important thing is for us to emphasize our abiliities and strengths rather than our disabiliities. Think about using your meager pain free time to its fullest. take a positive attitude towards your life. I'm a Christian and I have found it helpful to think of Paul's words to the Phillipians (4:13) where he wrote "I can do all things through Christ which strengthens me." Even typing is a bit of a trial but it is at those times that I draw strength from my faith and my desire to help other people cope. Hope this helps somebody. ART