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From: Tom.Lipovits@f3.n157.z1.fidonet.org (Tom Lipovits)
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Subject: Losing my ygirlfriend..
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Date: 30 Oct 90 04:15:55 GMT
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I had a head injury nov.  '89 which was caused, unfortunately by the 
husband of a girl my girlfriend used to know about 10 years ago. 
Specifically I wqas shot in he head, so this huy couldsteal mycar.  The 
bad part is my parents are blaming my girlfriend because she used toknow 
this girl.  Now they are tryingto separate us because of this and I 
can't handle losing her. We were planning ongetting married his fall, 
but twe'dwait if I needed to. Now my patrents wanteverything called off, 
anddemanded sheeven give the ring back, to THEM.Now I face losingthe 
woman I love for no good reason. It's unfortunate she was caught up in 
the messof things, but were are very much in love and now we have no way 
to fight back.  Wewant to be together, but my parents have legal 
authority over me (I'm 27) and therefore I have nothing to fight back 
with.  SometimesI feel likethrowing myself off the top ofthe stairs 
andending the nightmare so she can go on without me, but t 
myparentswould blame her for that, too.  Itseemsi cant rebel at all 
without causingmore damage to our relationship, but how do you rebel 
then??I cannot be alittle boyanddo as mommy and daddy say andthrow the 
lady I love out hthe window.  I have somuch to live for, but I'm 
notallowed to have anything that I have had before my injury.  I 
don'tknow how long I can keep going without her, or how long shecan go 
without me, since no one will let us be together, ever.I just cant take 
it any  more, I have to find a way out of this hell I live in.

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