Path: utzoo!utgpu!news-server.csri.toronto.edu!cs.utexas.edu!wuarchive!usc!orion.oac.uci.edu!ucivax!gateway From: jha@lfcs.edinburgh.ac.UK (Jamie Andrews) Newsgroups: soc.feminism Subject: Re: what feminism has done FOR men Message-ID: <9789.9011071557@subnode.lfcs.ed.ac.uk> Date: 9 Nov 90 15:58:00 GMT References: <18940@oolong.la.locus.com> Organization: Laboratory for the Foundations of Computer Science, Edinburgh U Lines: 30 Approved: tittle@ics.uci.edu Nntp-Posting-Host: blanche.ics.uci.edu Judy Leedom Tyrer: >>Feminism has given men the freedom to be human beings. They no longer >>have to posture. J. Eric Townsend: >You can say that again.... >Perhaps the best thing that "feminism" (nebulosity meter just peaked) >has done for me, as a male, is given me "permission" to be open and >honest about my feelings, my upbringing, and where I'm at now.... I would have to disagree. I don't think feminism as a whole has caused whatever movement there has been in this direction. What has been doing this is the associated men's liberation movement, and the parts of the feminist movement which support it. Some parts of the feminist movement specifically denigrate and deride men's lib, and insist that men do not need any more "freedom" than they already have. There is still a lot of pressure on men to posture. Men still find that they are rewarded for acting macho (as long as they do not question the goals of feminism), even by feminist women. Movies, TV, advertising, schooling, romantic interaction still all promote the stereotype of the man as the brutal, emotionless sex machine. Sorry, but we've got a long way to go, baby. --Jamie. jha@lfcs.ed.ac.uk "Whoa dere, renaissance guy! Ya coulda stopped at out ta lunch!"