Path: utzoo!utgpu!news-server.csri.toronto.edu!cs.utexas.edu!usc!sdd.hp.com!think.com!yale!bunker!hcap!hnews!300!14!James.Womack From: James.Womack@f14.n300.z1.fidonet.org (James Womack) Newsgroups: misc.handicap Subject: ASL and Deafies part 3 Message-ID: <15738@bunker.UUCP> Date: 19 Nov 90 04:01:29 GMT Sender: wtm@bunker.UUCP Reply-To: James.Womack@f14.n300.z1.fidonet.org Distribution: misc Organization: FidoNet node 1:300/14 - The Emerald Isle, Tucson AZ Lines: 41 Approved: wtm@bunker.UUCP Index Number: 11830 [This is from the Silent Talk Conference] However, your experience is yours. It does not apply to all other deaf people. Nor does mine. Family background includes degree of parental involvement, whether or not the parents were deaf, whether or not they signed at home, whether or not they used ASL or a coded English sign system and so on. For every person who is like you, there is one or more who resents the English only focus they were forced through. AT ASDB, we keep getting mainstreamed kids whose parents finally realize how restricted the educational environment is for their kids. AT PCC and the UA, I bump into deaf people who repeatedly say they wish to God they had learned ASL earlier now that they see how it makes it easier for them to learn. Too many blame their parents and schools for their plight. They do not see that these persons did the best they could the best way they believed was right. They are so bitter. And their numbers are increasing. Nonetheless, there will always be that core who never really become a true part of the deaf culture experience or the deaf community They will see things contrary to what I have talked about here. Being a part of the deaf community does not mean closing off to the remainder of the world. It means having a cultural identity. Birds of a feather do flock together after all. What it should also mean is that we deafies start taking control of our own lives. We should be putting ourselves in positions in educational programs and other aspects of our lives and cutting down on the monopoly that hearies have in controling so many aspects of our lives. We need deaf superintendents, deaf principals, deaf post-secondary instructors and program coordinators. We need to be more a part of the agencies that evoke policy about our affairs. It is time we begin doing that. -- Uucp: ..!{decvax,oliveb}!bunker!hcap!hnews!300!14!James.Womack Internet: James.Womack@f14.n300.z1.fidonet.org