Path: utzoo!utgpu!news-server.csri.toronto.edu!cs.utexas.edu!sun-barr!olivea!oliveb!bunker!hcap!hnews!105!14.0!Allen.Marker From: Allen.Marker@p0.f14.n105.z1.fidonet.org (Allen Marker) Newsgroups: misc.handicap Subject: dealing with life in a chair Message-ID: <15898@bunker.UUCP> Date: 27 Nov 90 21:11:51 GMT Sender: wtm@bunker.UUCP Reply-To: Allen.Marker@p0.f14.n105.z1.fidonet.org Distribution: misc Organization: FidoNet node 1:105/14.0 - Busker's Boneyard, Portland OR Lines: 21 Approved: wtm@bunker.UUCP Index Number: 11990 [This is from the Spinal Injury Conference] Hello. My name is allen Marker and i am a para. with a c6-7 fracture. I was a guitar player in a nimber of bands and also had trained and taught martial arts for 16 years. i fell off a 45 foot balcony and nailed my neck on a speed bump in the parking lot. Since then i have had a hard time dealing with not being able to do all the things i used to do. I kind of feel like i died there because i cant play professionaly anymore nor can i teach to be able to realy defend myself or others. i'm not looking for pity just wondering how people can find other things to take the place of everything that you had. I have never confronted this and if i hadnt seen this board i probably never would have. any help or feedback would be listened to and hopefully i can benifit from it. thanks for listening. allen -- Uucp: ..!{decvax,oliveb}!bunker!hcap!hnews!105!14.0!Allen.Marker Internet: Allen.Marker@p0.f14.n105.z1.fidonet.org