Path: utzoo!censor!geac!torsqnt!news-server.csri.toronto.edu!cs.utexas.edu!samsung!olivea!oliveb!bunker!hcap!hnews!261!1000!Harry.London From: Harry.London@f1000.n261.z1.fidonet.org (Harry London) Newsgroups: misc.handicap Subject: Re: dealing with life in a chair Message-ID: <15944@bunker.UUCP> Date: 28 Nov 90 17:07:50 GMT Sender: wtm@bunker.UUCP Reply-To: Harry.London@f1000.n261.z1.fidonet.org Distribution: misc Organization: FidoNet node 1:261/1000 - Nerve Center, Pikesville MD Lines: 30 Approved: wtm@bunker.UUCP Index Number: 12032 [This is from the Spinal Injury Conference] Alan: You are getting a lot of good response to your request for advice, etc., on dealing with life in a chair. I'll add my personal experience. I have now been in a wheelchair 20 months, being a T-10 para due to an inflammatory process or something like it in the spinal cord. I was I guess I should say am an advertising writer, and have been doing several free lance writing and consulting projects. But I was also a singer involved in synagogue cnatorial work, and that I am unable to do any longer not because of vocal problems, but just the logistics of keeping on an early morning schedule...in view of some of the other problems generally associated with spinal cord problems. If I judged the way the world was going to be for me by the way I felt 20 months ago I'd have thrown in the towel back then. But I always had a perspective that (1) things have a way of evolving (2) you get accustomed to situations over time, and then go on from there., The best advice I can give you is to think ahead to 6 months, a year, etc., from now and know with full faith that you will get this stage behind you. You will ber amazed and pleased by the number of things that yuou will be doing at those pointks in the future. And you will find this echo and others of tremendous value and inspiration when you see scores of examples coming on every week of overcoming, and "going from there." Good luck, and good to know ;you. Harry -- Uucp: ..!{decvax,oliveb}!bunker!hcap!hnews!261!1000!Harry.London Internet: Harry.London@f1000.n261.z1.fidonet.org