Path: utzoo!utgpu!news-server.csri.toronto.edu!cs.utexas.edu!uunet!ora!daemon From: bloch%thor@ucsd.edu (Steve Bloch) Newsgroups: soc.feminism Subject: Re: feminism & simplification Message-ID: <15207@sdcc6.ucsd.edu> Date: 5 Jan 91 04:47:46 GMT References: <9012052040.AA03770@decpa.pa.dec.com> <1991Jan2.155342.1414@arris.com> Sender: ambar@ora.com (Jean Marie Diaz) Organization: O'Reilly and Associates Inc., Cambridge MA Lines: 31 Approved: ambar@ora.com rshapiro@arris.com (Richard Shapiro) writes: >The problem comes, not from one role being oppressive to >another, but from the fact that the amorphous complex of roles we call >"female" is a less privileged position than the amorphous complex of >roles we call "male". That, ultimately, is what feminists want to >change. But the EXISTENCE of "the amorphous complex of roles we call 'female'" and its "male" counterpart is a problem too, in that it excludes (or at least discourages) people of both sexes from playing certain roles. In a society (purely hypothetical :-) in which one sex is trained to speak up and originate ideas in a group while the other is trained to listen attentively and nod a lot, members of the first will never learn to listen, to analyze what another person says before presenting their own views, and members of the second will never learn how to frame a coherent argument or proposal, nor gain the self-confidence to do so in public. If one sex is trained to empathize and show emotion, while the other is trained in pure logic, each will in effect be deprived of the other's mode of thought, and members of both sexes will be incomplete human beings. It happens that, perhaps partly because women are trained to be more introspective and aware of their feelings than men, women (on the whole) feel more oppressed by the current system than men do. But it really is oppressive to both. -- "I'm nobody's savior, and nobody's mine either..." -- Ferron Steve Bloch bloch@cs.ucsd.edu