Path: utzoo!utgpu!news-server.csri.toronto.edu!cs.utexas.edu!yale!bunker!hcap!hnews!137!10.0!Douglas.Zachary From: Douglas.Zachary@p0.f10.n137.z1.fidonet.org (Douglas Zachary) Newsgroups: misc.handicap Subject: Re: Numbness Message-ID: <17630@bunker.UUCP> Date: 4 Feb 91 21:51:27 GMT Sender: wtm@bunker.UUCP Reply-To: Douglas.Zachary@p0.f10.n137.z1.fidonet.org Distribution: misc Organization: FidoNet node 1:137/10.0 - Above Board, Sarasota FL Lines: 28 Approved: wtm@bunker.UUCP Index Number: 13511 [This is from the Spinal Injury Conference] I am not ambulatory but am a "lucky quad", meaning that I have some use of my hands and feeling on the thumb half. Some days I can feel and use my hands better. Usually, they are worse when there is something that would be painful in an unfeeling area, i.e hangnail, pressure sore, artritis flair up, etc. Buddy should get checked for pressure on the cord though, specially if it is high. The way the "accidents" feel to Buddy is exactly the same with me. Frank gave good advice on the bowel training, all of us quads have to have regular routines to lessen the accidents but they happen from time to time. If I were Buddy, I would start using a walker, falling like that sure doesn't help anything and can rob him of his confidence. I think he should go back to rehab for a few weeks. I feel that all spinal cord injured should go back to rehab 2 years post accident. You need help too Jean, your emotional stress and trying to take Buddy,s pain and frustration on yourself will not do either of you any good. You are a very sensitive and caring person and I pray for strength for both of you. If you ever feel the need you can call me at 813-377-9026. Maybe I can get down there once I get some repairs done on my van. Take care 'cause I care. Zack -- Uucp: ..!{decvax,oliveb}!bunker!hcap!hnews!137!10.0!Douglas.Zachary Internet: Douglas.Zachary@p0.f10.n137.z1.fidonet.org