Path: utzoo!utgpu!news-server.csri.toronto.edu!cs.utexas.edu!sdd.hp.com!think.com!yale!bunker!hcap!hnews!203!11!Vixen From: Vixen@f11.n203.z1.fidonet.org (Vixen) Newsgroups: misc.handicap Subject: Re: DEAF AND/OR HEARING IMPAIRED Message-ID: <17921@bunker.UUCP> Date: 28 Feb 91 16:14:11 GMT Sender: wtm@bunker.UUCP Reply-To: Vixen@f11.n203.z1.fidonet.org Distribution: misc Organization: FidoNet node 1:203/11 - The Broken Rose BBS, Sacramento CA Lines: 46 Approved: wtm@bunker.UUCP Index Number: 13770 [This is from the Silent Talk Conference] Hi James, I love terminology debates, they are so much fun! You may have already seen my messages to Annie explaining why "I" prefer "hearing impaired" over "Hard of hearing." While I can understand why deaf persons might be annoyed by someone referring to them as "impaired" , I loathe the neagtive connotations and images that abound among the hearing (and possibly some deaf and hearing impaired) of someone who is "hard of hearing." (For some of my previously described reasoning.) In my case, hearing impaired is not an insult and just a statement of fact. I am not deaf and can hear to a useable degree using electronic devices and my hearing loss is a disorder, therefore impairment. I am not at all insulted or offended if someone at first believes me to be deaf and that happens sometimes and more often, people ask if I were born with my hearing impairment. (Usually, they say "hard of hearing.") But, if I may have my preferecence, I prefer hearing impaired. If and when I reach such a stage where "deaf" is the approriate word, I shall not find that offensive. However, it does'nt bother me in the slightest if the word "deaf" is used in a generic sense by a relay operator. But "hard of hearing?" Yucky yucky yucky! Quick, someone go get my ear horn and my granny dress! Actually, I don't care what you call me as long as you give me lots of love, attention and money to spend! Keepin' the faith! . Vixen ..."The invisible man? Tell him I can't see him today!" -- Uucp: ..!{decvax,oliveb}!bunker!hcap!hnews!203!11!Vixen Internet: Vixen@f11.n203.z1.fidonet.org