Path: utzoo!news-server.csri.toronto.edu!rpi!zaphod.mps.ohio-state.edu!mips!dimacs.rutgers.edu!aramis.rutgers.edu!athos.rutgers.edu!christian From: mib@churchy.ai.mit.edu (Michael I Bushnell) Newsgroups: soc.religion.christian Subject: Re: Gay Ordination in the Presbyterian Church Message-ID: Date: 18 Mar 91 15:39:35 GMT Sender: hedrick@athos.rutgers.edu Organization: Free Software Foundation, Cambridge, MA Lines: 20 Approved: christian@aramis.rutgers.edu In article brendan@cs.uq.oz.au (Brendan Mahony) writes: Well put. It seems that others are focusing more on the subject of AIDS than I am. The pain I was referring to was the pain involved in the lifestyle they lead, not in any resulting disease. Being in Australia AIDS tends toward the abstract for me, whilst the miseries of multiple dating, drugs, drunk driving and other unwise lifestyles abound. Now this is getting ridiculous. Let's say it again. Being gay, and having gay sex, is not directly related to multiple dating at all. How drugs and drunk driving got into it is completely beyond me. And, if the assumption is that being gay is inherently unhappy, or disappointing, it certainly isn't any worse than being a woman in our society. It's roughly on a par with being a member of any oppressed group. It's got its own problems, and its own joys. But it is simply a factual error (and one which causes lots of grief on its own) to claim that being gay is inherently unhappy. -mib