Path: utzoo!utgpu!news-server.csri.toronto.edu!rpi!zaphod.mps.ohio-state.edu!uwm.edu!linac!att!ucbvax!bloom-beacon!ora!ambar From: hrdoucet@watcgl.waterloo.edu (Heloise Doucet) Newsgroups: soc.feminism Subject: Re: does healthy, mutual erotica exist? Message-ID: <1991Apr15.170141.19828@watcgl.waterloo.edu> Date: 18 Apr 91 17:44:10 GMT References: Sender: ambar@ora.com (Jean Marie Diaz) Organization: Computer Graphics Lab [CGL], University of Waterloo Lines: 26 Approved: ambar@ora.com Questions to all: Why is it that women "seem" to prefer the soft pornography and dislike anything violent? Why do "a number" of women get so upset when they see their boyfriends reading Playboy and such? Are they being controlling? Are they insecure? Why do men "seem" to prefer "porno" magazines and think that there is nothing wrong with violence? Are they being controlling? Are they insecure? Why does this difference in attitude exist? Is it just society or is it something deeper? If we could answer these questions, then maybe we wouldn't have a problem. Heloise ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ I may be a dumb blonde but at least I'm a natural dumb blonde! ------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I'm sure that if you feel my arguments are wrong you'll correct me. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I love mail -- and my boyfriend :-) (should I be telling people this?) Oh well, just send it to hrdoucet@cgl.waterloo.edu ((H)eloise Doucet)