Path: utzoo!utgpu!news-server.csri.toronto.edu!rpi!zaphod.mps.ohio-state.edu!usc!orion.oac.uci.edu!ucivax!gateway From: dgross@polyslo.CalPoly.EDU (Dave Gross) Newsgroups: soc.feminism Subject: Re: Why I Am Not a Feminist Message-ID: <2813a1d5.40eb@petunia.CalPoly.EDU> Date: 23 Apr 91 17:44:24 GMT References: <2805efd1.34d0@petunia.CalPoly.EDU> <1991Apr14.222759.13730@casbah.acns.nwu.edu> <14423@ccncsu.ColoState.EDU> Organization: Manumission: The Campus Men's Forum Lines: 107 Approved: tittle@ics.uci.edu Nntp-Posting-Host: zola.ics.uci.edu Since I'm the fool that started this thread, I think it's about time I clarify some of my remarks and hopefully move this discussion along a more constructive path. As an initial clarifying point, let me say that I'm one of those people who would LIKE to be a feminist -- my criticism of feminism is not that of an antifeminist trying to prove the movement wrong, but of an egalitarian conscience trying to understand where a once-egalitarian movement went wrong. According to handel!farmerl@ccncsu.ColoState.EDU (lisa ann farmer): >Reading this thread and having dealt with this issue in some depth I see an >attitude that does not please me. All these people criticize the works of >feminists - especially if they are at all tinged with "man-hating". Has >anyone heard of process? Anybody can excerpt some of the more outrageous fringe literature from a group in an attempt to slander that group. It's a cheap game to play, and I was consciously trying to avoid playing that game. My objections are not directly with the works of Solanis, et al., since I know that any group as large and diverse as feminism can expect to attract some wackos with access to type- writers. My objection is to the fact that these wackos, no matter how anti-male they get, are not seen as the reprehensible bigots that they are by the so-called "mainstream" of feminism. I would like to see a feminism in which approvingly quoting Valerie Solanis in the concluding paragraph of one's essay is treated with the same amount of disgust as would quoting Charlie Manson. Instead, mainstream feminists like my Women's Studies professor (who complains constantly that her feminist friends think she is not radical enough), call essays like these "great." As an aside, I turned in the "Why I Am Not A Feminist" essay in my women's studies class. The professor read aloud from two essays which were written in response to an excerpt from Susan Brownmiller's "Against Our Will." One was from a woman who wrote a vivid and horrifying account of how she and her family felt when an 8-year-old cousin of hers was kidnapped and raped. There wasn't a dry eye in the room when the reading was finished. The professor introduced my essay by saying something along the lines of "And here's something from the other side of the issue..." Chew on the implications of that for a moment... >Women are/were angry. The literature that has come out of that anger is >angry too. I think that women's studies should allow the anger along with the >loving. I can understand the psychology behind this angry literature. I can try to sympathize with the people who write it and with their state of mind. But I don't think, as it seems many feminists do, that I should give any special credibility to these works because of the emotion behind them, or spare them from criticism because of the intensity of feeling of the author. Surely David Duke was angry when he marched around in a Nazi uniform several years back. This does not mean that I can quote David Duke approvingly in an essay and avoid being thought of as a nutcase out of some sort of idea that the anger behind Duke's actions insulates me from any criticism for taking his views seriously. > Literature needs to be read with its context in mind. Reading a work >from the 70's is going to have, in most cases, a different focus than that of >the 90's. But the process of how and what makes feminism of today is important >in understanding feminism. If this were the focus of these articles in feminist textbooks, I would have little or no complaint. Surely Valerie Solanis has her place in the annals of the women's movement, just as John Wilkes Booth has his place in American history. But the feminist textbooks place Brownmiller not in the chapter about the history of feminism, but in the chapter discussing theories about how gender roles began (Brownmiller credits rape). This to me would be like a civil rights textbook being written with the far-out views of Leonard Jeffries (who says that whites suffer from an inadequate supply of melanin, making them unable to function as well as other groups, and that deformation of white genes during the Ice Ages causes whites to commit terrible crimes of genocide, while black genes were enhanced by "the value system of the sun") or David Duke included not as examples of bizarre racism, but included right alongside of, and given equal respect to, legitimate writing on civil rights. The Republicans consider David Duke an embarassment, and are doing their damnedest to distance themselves from him. The Democrats do the same to Lyndon LaRouche. If the feminists would do the same to lunatics like Brownmiller, Solanis, Griffin, et cetera (or at least tell them to clean up their act), it would do much to restore my confidence (and probably many other people's) in feminism. -- =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=- dgross@polyslo.CalPoly.EDU -=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=- "If men are going to destroy the planet Earth and all its inhabitants with violence and wars, all men should be killed, to preserve the rest of human kind" --Betsy Warrior