Path: utzoo!utgpu!news-server.csri.toronto.edu!cs.utexas.edu!swrinde!elroy.jpl.nasa.gov!aero-c!nadel From: cindy@hpcvia.CV.HP.COM (Cindy_Christensen) Newsgroups: soc.feminism Subject: Re: an approach to harassment Message-ID: <23620001@hpcvia.CV.HP.COM> Date: 4 May 91 04:09:25 GMT References: <9105012014.AA01374@cs.uri.edu> Sender: news@aero.org Organization: Hewlett-Packard Co., Corvallis, Oregon Lines: 6 Approved: nadel@aerospace.aero.org Status: R Originator: nadel@aerospace.aero.org Although I am not particularly shy, I would tell him that he is invading my personal space and that I find it very rude. Most people, by the third time you tell them they are being rude, back off. Another idea is to physically draw away to indicate your dislike of being touched casually. I also heard a good comeback if you are called "sweetie" or "honey", just say "ok, poopsie" and they shut right up. Good luck! -Cindy