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From: scottk@eng.umd.edu (Scott K. Walker)
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Subject: Re: Help--having problem with missing orgasm
Keywords: orgasm, help
Message-ID: <1991May29.013629.21224@eng.umd.edu>
Date: 29 May 91 01:36:29 GMT
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In article <1991May28.214636.2338@athena.mit.edu> cemunoz@bard (Carlos E. Munoz) writes:
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>A good friend of mine approached me meekly yesterday, asking me if I could give
>him some advise or a few words of encouragement.  It seems that his girlfriend
>"cannot have an orgasm."  I thought that it was rather strange and unusual, so

It is not the norm, but it does happen.  I beleive that the best advice is
not to worry about it.  If they BOTH enjoy what they are doing, then go 
with it.  It may happen, or it may not.  The worst thing that your friend
can do is to make her feel bad about it.  If you keep trying and failing,
then she will feel like there is something wrong...

I suppose she could have some sort of a hang-up.... but it is probably 
nothing that she needs to worry about.

Does she masterbate?  I have heard that some women come easier that way.
Also, if she doesn't, she may not know what to do to make it feel the 
best for her.  (Masterbation can be a two player sport of course...)

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