Path: utzoo!utgpu!news-server.csri.toronto.edu!bonnie.concordia.ca!uunet!tymix!tardis!oliveb!bunker!wtm From: LGH@BROWNVM.BITNET (Lynn Hughes) Newsgroups: misc.handicap Subject: Re: adoption Message-ID: <15935@handicap.news> Date: 2 Jun 91 12:04:41 GMT Sender: wtm@bunker.isc-br.com Reply-To: LGH@BROWNVM.BITNET (Lynn Hughes) Lines: 15 Approved: wtm@hnews.fidonet.org Fidonet: Blink Talk Conference Index Number: 15935 Yes, indeed, there is a two-tier system for adoption in this country. "Desireable" children, which means healthy, white, babies, are reserved for "desireable" parents, meaning healthy, white, well-to-do, married, and in a particular age range. Other parents-- including handicapped, single, poor, too old, too young, etc.-- are considered for "hard-to-place" children-- older, handicapped, non-white, etc. Racist? Discriminatory? Unfair? You bet. Unfortunately this system seems to be deeply ingrained in both the public and private adoption networks. To the extent that the factors that make someone desireable or undesirable are irrelevant to the success of the adoptive relationship, they are discriminatory; to the extent that they are legitimate, the system works to ensure that the children with the greatest needs go to the parents least able to meet them. The whole system is in drastic need of reform.