Path: utzoo!utgpu!news-server.csri.toronto.edu!cs.utexas.edu!swrinde!elroy.jpl.nasa.gov!aero-c!nadel From: gazit@cs.duke.edu (Hillel Gazit) Newsgroups: soc.feminism Subject: Re: Sexism vs. Men's Oppression Message-ID: <676060423@lear.cs.duke.edu> Date: 4 Jun 91 18:33:44 GMT References: <675774990@lear.cs.duke.edu> <1991Jun4.152009.1931@cs.warwick.ac.uk> Sender: news@aero.org Organization: The Piranha Club Lines: 20 Approved: nadel@aerospace.aero.org Status: R Originator: nadel@aerospace.aero.org #pay child's support, no matter why they don't pay. The fact the women #have had a choice for abortion the last 17 years makes no difference #for feminist organizations. They also want the choice to take the #father to the cleaners, if they feel like that. In article <1991Jun4.152009.1931@cs.warwick.ac.uk> (Ben Dessau) writes: > How can you say, Hillel, that a woman would have a *choice* of >whether to have an abortion or not, in your senario of men being >relieved of their financial obligations if he wanted an abortion and >she didn't. The woman's *choice* comes down to: have an abortion or >keep the child and suffer major financial problems for a long time. 1) She has one more choice - giving up the child for adoption. 2) It seems to you unfair that the women will "suffer major financial problems for a long time" because of her decision not to abort, but I've not heard you (feminists) complain because the *man* "suffers major financial problems for a long time" because of *her* decision. Somehow, expecting a woman to pay, like a man, the price for her choices is so un-feminine and un-feminist.