From: utzoo!decvax!harpo!ihps3!ixn5c!ixlpc!mhauck Newsgroups: net.singles Title: To Ellen Article-I.D.: ixlpc.5010832 Posted: Mon Nov 1 09:00:32 1982 Received: Tue Nov 2 04:10:37 1982 I'm really sorry your marriage broke up, but I've heard to many people with the same ideas you have, stab, stab, stab, make the other one hurt as much as you do, but does it feel any better? I doubt it. Why not let go? It didn't work out, why must divorceing couples, rip each other to shreads? This just doesn't make sense, if the feelings weren strong enought to keep you together then it wasn't ment to be, but you shouldn 't go around dragging each other through the mud. Remenber the good times, there had to be some in five years, why not let them guide you. Right now you have done the worst thing, by advertising to the world your hate. I bet that makes you feel real good, you wanted everyone to think your husband was a creep, but your the one that came across as a vicious female, you have just made it harder for other females(which I am one) to be thought of human beings. I will have been married five months November 5, and I am still very happy. We do have arguments, but we always talk it out. Lets heard it for some happy marriages, I'm sick of hearing about bad ones 24year old female married to a 29 year old male. Sorry you blew it Ellen.