From: utzoo!decvax!minow Newsgroups: net.singles Title: Re: Gordon: Article-I.D.: decvax.322 Posted: Mon Nov 1 20:50:15 1982 Received: Tue Nov 2 06:23:17 1982 References: we53.164 Ellen's remarks about Gordon may have been a joke, or they may have been a cry of frustration from someone who sees no other (non-violent) outlet for her pain. They made me stop and wonder whether I hurt my ex-wife, unwittingly to be sure, so badly that she would have said the same about me, had she access to this forum of invisible listners. They should make you think about the realities of your life, and of your responsibilities towards those who love you; Gordon's towards Ellen, and Ellen towards Gordon. And, rather than tell Ellen to shut up, we should be happy that she, for whatever reason, was willing to speak of her pain. Martin Minow decvax!minow