From: utzoo!decvax!ucbvax!ARPAVAX:UNKNOWN:G:fantods Newsgroups: net.singles Title: Re: cooking etc. Article-I.D.: populi.447 Posted: Fri Nov 5 12:35:35 1982 Received: Sat Nov 6 06:11:31 1982 "Women find someone that they love, and become turned on by them, men tend to get turned on by somebody and then try to love them." Something like that. I am simply worried by my own, and other males, extreme appearance-orientation towards defining attractiveness. This comment has been stated in dualistic, oversimplified terms so that everybody can kick it to bits if need be. Richard