From: utzoo!watmath!watcgl!dmmartindale Newsgroups: net.singles Title: immediate turnons/turnoffs Article-I.D.: watcgl.8 Posted: Sat Nov 6 01:05:52 1982 Received: Sat Nov 6 07:23:10 1982 Note: this is not a checklist, these are things that I remember being affected by in the past. Things that cause me to be attracted to someone: - perceptiveness - openness about their feelings, and sensitivity to other peoples' feelings (this is VERY important later, too) - ability to carry on a discussion with me in which I feel mentally challenged - interest in me (of course) Things that are immediate turnoffs: - smoking - insensitivity to the feelings of others - someone who appears TOO desperate to know me These are not in any order, and there must be others.