From: utzoo!decvax!harpo!ihps3!ixn5c!inuxc!pur-ee!CSvax:cak Newsgroups: net.singles Title: Re: cooking etc. Article-I.D.: purdue.438 Posted: Mon Nov 8 11:57:35 1982 Received: Tue Nov 9 03:11:25 1982 References: populi.447 Wrt getting turned on and loving -- I find myself agreeing with the perception of what males do quite strongly (find themselves turned on by someone and then try to love them). This has been the situation with me a number of times -- but I can't say I understand it. However, rather recently, I met someone that I was reasonably attracted to, but it was different -- not mainly a physical thing at the beginning as I've experienced before. The two things came pretty simultaneously; it was different, and actually quite nice. I rather like it. Cheers, chris