From: utzoo!decvax!harpo!seismo!rocheste!heliotis
Newsgroups: net.singles
Title: Re: marriage and love
Article-I.D.: rocheste.239
Posted: Tue Nov 16 09:12:59 1982
Received: Wed Nov 17 05:19:11 1982
References: sytek.222

I agree with brian (He's the one who talked about the old days and arranged
marriages and the heart being second to the family), to a limited extent.
He illustrates that the main way to have a marriage that works is to work
at it, not by finding M. Right, and letting everything fall naturally and
beautifully into place.  However, it's still much nicer if the two people
are initially drawn together by a mutual attraction that would have a chance
to grow as their life together progresses, rather than by an "arrangement".

						Jim Heliotis