From: utzoo!laura Newsgroups: net.singles Title: Re: Sharing Expenses in Proportion to Income Article-I.D.: utzoo.2663 Posted: Wed Dec 1 02:04:43 1982 Received: Wed Dec 1 02:04:43 1982 References: cca.3490 this is one with no hard and fast rule -- like many other things you have to work it out on a case by case basis. This busines of 'pooling everything together because everything is shared' sounds wonderful.... but if it translates into a case of the wealthier enjoying his sense of generosity while the poorer is suffering under the belief that he is 'taking his partner to the cleaners' or remains involved in the relationship solely out of a sense of obligation or guilt due to the other's greater financial contributions to the relationship then I think that a less romantic and more practical approach is reccomended. not afraid to be cynical, laura creighton decvax!utzoo!laura