From: utzoo!decvax!genradbo!grkermit!garry Newsgroups: net.singles Title: Re: advice sought, seeing someone who has just broken an engagement Article-I.D.: grkermit.237 Posted: Tue Dec 14 15:47:18 1982 Received: Wed Dec 15 06:21:27 1982 References: otuxa.165 Right now you are walking a tight rope. I did the same arrangment 2 months ago. She was a fantastic lady, but after seeing someone for 4 years It was time for her to move. Don't let yourself get too involved because it usually takes 1-3 months for her to get back on her feet, then watch out. If she is really interested in you, it will work out. Just don't apply any pressure, but let her know she still is special. Its a hard bill to fill, and if she is not a sensitive person, the odds are against you. I had 1 month of sheer heaven and 1 month of pure hell. I wish you luck. The Baer