From: utzoo!decvax!ittvax!dcdwest!wsp Newsgroups: net.singles Title: Re: advice Article-I.D.: dcdwest.151 Posted: Fri Dec 17 15:49:01 1982 Received: Fri Dec 24 02:19:20 1982 References: watmath.4081 My experience after being involved with a woman I cared deeply about was that I "sleep-walked" through a number of relationships in the ensuing year or so. I felt as though I should date other women, get out and get back in circulation, but now I wonder whether celibacy might not have been more honest. I feel as though I trashed some people in my process of healing. Hence, I concur with Barb: Be careful. Peter Benson