From: utzoo!decvax!decwrl!flairvax!ellis Newsgroups: net.singles Title: Re: RE: Birth Control Article-I.D.: flairvax.104 Posted: Mon Apr 11 23:27:55 1983 Received: Wed Apr 13 08:29:59 1983 References: ihldt.1509 A shockingly large number of women who are frequently in situations where they might get pregnant (but probably don't want to admit it) NEVER keep any form birth control with them, and, perhaps knowing that the guy won't ask, later conveniently have a scapegoat to dump the blame on if they discover themselves pregnant in need of an abortion. Perhaps these women minimize bad feelings about themselves because carrying some method of birth control with them would make them feel "loose" (not having rid themselves completely of prehistoric sexual codes) -- and the guilt resulting from occasionally having to destroy partially formed babies in their wombs can be conveniently dumped on some jerk who didn't have the guts to ask... In fact, I usually do ask, and will wait until another time (by the way -- this usually really pisses women off) rather than take the risk of having to destroy a unfortunately created human. Of course, I could carry diaphragms or creams/dispensers around with me (would YOU use them ?) I'd rather wait than use prophylactics, though...