From: utzoo!decvax!harpo!seismo!rocheste!kink
Newsgroups: net.singles
Title: Re: a males reply
Article-I.D.: rocheste.1282
Posted: Tue Apr 19 16:03:06 1983
Received: Fri Apr 22 23:09:02 1983
References: seismo.276

In response to Judy M, Sarah, etc.       Re: Popping THE Question

Yes, I care, and I ALWAYS ask, and make arrangements accordingly.  After
all, one can have a lot of fun, and "all the way isn't the only way."  Now,
I will make my complaint of the day:  WHY must I ask everything???  WHY must
I so often be the one to stick my neck out and broach the sensitive subjects:
	Are you just being affectionate, or do you want to fool around?
	Would you like to do this.... or that?
	Are you protected?
	What method? (ie. Do we have to wait 20 minutes, or can I kiss
			  every inch of your body, and do it 'till we
			  scream?)

It seems to me that liberated women would take some of that presure off and
be much more direct and assertive.  Perhaps the reason that so many are not
has to do with the fact that it is much easier to let the other person deal
with the difficult parts of interaction, and then no one does.  So, the next
time that you females grab a guy by the balls in a bar, remember to flash
him a glance at you BCP calender/dispenser... Not only will you both avoid
the pressure of discussing it later, but he will remember the date!!!

					Andy Papp   (kink)
				seismo or allegra ! rochester ! kink

PS: Yes, this is rather sardonic, but I hope not so much so that it covers
    up my point.  I've been waiting years to reap the benfits of the feminist
    revolution, and seldom do.  I thought of shift-13-ing this, but I think
    that you're mature enough to take it unadulterated.