From: utzoo!decvax!harpo!floyd!vax135!ariel!hou5f!npois!npoiv!houxm!houxz!hocda!spanky!burl!sb1!ll1!otuxa!we13!uniq!mike Newsgroups: net.singles Title: Re: Arwen, pawing, and the discussion of the month Article-I.D.: uniq.129 Posted: Wed Apr 27 19:55:58 1983 Received: Sat Apr 30 06:39:33 1983 References: amd70.1946 Bravo! Bravo! Bravo! I agree with Clif Purkiser about moving this group along a bit... after all it IS OUR group, and it WILL sour if WE don't activate it once in a while (i.e. down de tubes if we sit back and watch)! Regarding his question about advancing a relation.... It has been my unfortunate experience that unless the lady has had the same intentions that you have had, then you won't be able to develop the relation any further than it is now. A year ago I had a wonderful, charming, intelligent, witty piano teacher - who had a boyfriend. She remained a piano teacher friend of mine, although she did exchange 'boy-friends' a few times. In her last letter (I moved away), she did mention the fact that she had a new friend, but nothing was serious. She also mentioned the fact that she was a bit frightened about "settleing (sp?!) down"; and what a great guy I was (of COURSE I'm exaggerating!). So, I have another (!) question: is this a great break for me? Is it possible to pick up a friendly broken off relation? Let's get this group moving!!! Lady Arwen is a Fantastic topic - but it belongs in net.fantasy!!! Leave her personal life alone!!! - don't 'cha have any respect? Let's get net.singles, net.people, net.life back on the track, OK? Best regards (i.e. take care), Mike