From: utzoo!decvax!decwrl!sun!megatest!fortune!hpda!hpdb!rgr
Newsgroups: net.singles
Title: Attached people:  Another perspective
Article-I.D.: hpdb.125
Posted: Fri Apr 29 14:49:35 1983
Received: Mon May  2 03:03:03 1983
References: mit-eddi.142

   In following the discussion on going out with attached people, I
find it interesting that everyone assumes that Something Heavy is
involved.  Of course, it often is, but usually the light stuff comes
first.  I enjoy non-heavy friendships with women, and "attached" women
are certainly not off limits; if it develops into something more than
just friendship, then that will be due to genuine feeling and not
"predatory tactics" on my part.  The other side of the coin is that I
put no restraints on whom the person I am "attached" to may see.
This is often hard, but if I can't keep someone's affection (or they
lose my trust), then there is not much left of the relationship anyway.

   By the way, I agree with Greg (hao!woods) that this is the most
interesting net.singles discussion in a long time.  Keep those cards
and letters coming.

					Bob Rogers
					Hewlett Packard Design Aids
					Cupertino