From: utzoo!decvax!wivax!linus!genrad!wjh12!foxvax1!brunix!rayssd!hxe Newsgroups: net.singles Title: Re: Birth Control Education - (nf) Article-I.D.: rayssd.1111 Posted: Fri Apr 29 09:31:28 1983 Received: Mon May 2 04:12:58 1983 References: hp-pcd.960 I don't agree that if you teach kids sex-ed too early they will ignore it. It's possible that they will 'shelve' the information for awhile until they can deal with it, but at least the correct and reasonable info is there when it's needed. My mother (a 'shrink') read a children's book called "Peter and Caroline" with me when I was four. It was designed for young children and contained anatomically-correct drawings and simple but complete information on the biological processes of how and when. It even had a little chapter on "why," as little Peter asked his mother when all this stuff took place. She told him "when two people are in love," to which his reply was "but I love Caroline (his twin)." Mother then explained the marriage context, but my overwhelming impression was that love, not marriage, was the prerequisite. Not bad for 1960! Of course, I did not digest all of this information immediately, but, as the years passed and rumors abounded, I always remembered the truth and had very few illusions of cabbage patches and storks. It also led naturally to dis- cussions of birth control methods' plusses and cons (the fact that I have three older sisters probably played a large part there). Anyway, with all the very good books for children that have been published recently and all the concerned teachers and parents, I see no reason for enforced ignoranced through the school systems. These things can be incorporated a little at a time ALL THE WAY THROUGH a child's education, and thus be a lot less painful than that one (whisper whisper giggle giggle) 'health' class that is usually presented in ninth grade. By that time, the ones who know it are bored because the material is too basic, and the ones who don't are too embarrassed to ask questions. Educate the masses and maybe one day the masses will be made up of only people who were wanted and planned. Heather ...!brunix!rayssd!hxe