From: utzoo!decvax!harpo!floyd!trb Newsgroups: net.singles Title: Re: Thanks for the cards and letters, but... Article-I.D.: floyd.1489 Posted: Mon May 2 11:14:08 1983 Received: Thu May 5 09:49:52 1983 References: rlgvax.368 I'm one of those who's in favor of people posting netnews followed by a signature containing their real names. I accept most of the points made by thekid, but I have a few of my own (as always). I've gone through this before over netnews, but not lately. When a person takes a pseudonym for no apparent reason, it leads me to suspicion, just like if someone walks into a store with a stocking mask pulled over his head. Yes, it's a prejudicial impression, but I bet there must be someone else out there who gets the same impression. The impression is that either the person has something to hide, or is going to do something that he won't be proud of. The reasons for keeping your gender to yourself seem weak. thekid claims that he doesn't want people to ignore his netnews based on his sex. If his netnews is interesting, people will read it. If it's boring they will grow to ignore it. For some people, the point of the netnews seems to get overwhelmed by the pseudonym. Not to judge Lady Arwen's netnews but I get the impression that there are readers out there who picture a damsel waiting to be won, whereas if her name were just Arwen the impression wouldn't be nearly as strong. I don't really believe that I have enough evidence to make this too strong a conclusion, let's call it an impression. About the only necessary use for a pseudonym that I've seen on netnews (well, the only one that comes to mind) is rabbit!bimmler's pseudonym in net.suicide. Here's a person who wants to present a consistent (though degenerate) viewpoint, which he doesn't want to be associated (and confused) with his usual (reasonably respectable) image, so he created a separate one to help us distinguish the two. Of course, he's gathered his share of enemies, don't count me among them. If you don't like his content, fine. I have found his malice childish on many occasions. I have also found my malice childish on many occasions. But I feel his use of a pseudonym is proper. I find it hard to keep the "network personalities" distinct in my mind. This is necessary if I want to maintain a sense of continuity in these discussions, and as long as people sign their articles in some way it's ok. When I see an article whose author is only identified as sdcruft!gch666 I have trouble keeping a personality in mind. I have had the nickname Tribble since I was a freshman. There were people who didn't know my real name. They knew me personally, and Tribble served to identify me uniquely, and that was ok. My login is now trb, and that doesn't say much. I sign my articles and my signature probably strikes a familiar chord with many of you, dissonant though it might be. Of course, the fact that I share the pronunciation of my name with Andrew S. Tanenbaum, European Hacker, has caused slight confusion here and there, but at least you can associate my netnews with my signature. I like a pseudonym is better than no signature at all, but I can't help but get a bad first impression from someone who uses one. As you've probably noticed if you've read my netnews, I try my best to be frank. I know well that clear communication with other people is hard enough without establishing obstacles in my own path. If the person you're talking to sees your pseudonym as a distraction or obstacle, then that's what it is, and it's hindering your point. You might or might not have the strength in your ability to communicate to overcome these obstacles, but I don't see why you'd set them up in the first place. Do what you will, we can't stop you, but know that your presentation does affect our impression of you. Andy Tannenbaum Bell Labs Whippany, NJ (201) 386-6491