From: utzoo!decvax!microsof!uw-beaver!cornell!vax135!floyd!cmcl2!philabs!sdcsvax!sdccsu3!za16ao
Newsgroups: net.singles
Title: Re: pawing
Article-I.D.: sdccsu3.551
Posted: Thu Apr 21 09:47:22 1983
Received: Sun Apr 24 05:05:53 1983
References: sdcattb.2584 watcgl.342


Would like to agree with Dave Martindale on all counts.  Basically, you
shouldn't do something if you are thinking of it, as Dave said, " in a
negative way"... it's self-destructive.  A sensitive woman will take the
lead if she senses you're shy (I try to but I don't think I'm as
sensitive as I ought to be) and you will have no problems.  Sometimes
problems arise from consistently going out with the wrong kind of
person.  If you sense this is true, you might try other methods of
meeting people.  How about that girl on the bus you make eyes at every
day on the way to work?  How difficult would it be to sit by her and ask
where she's off to?  You meet the neatest people in the oddest ways...
In any case, don't force physicality.  It is a myth that women think you
are gay or wimpy if you don't make a move; as a rule, they find you
polite and considerate, and are often willing to make the move for you.
Good luck.
Arwen...