Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10.1 6/24/83; site decwrl.UUCP Path: utzoo!linus!decvax!decwrl!kent From: kent@decwrl.UUCP (Chris Kent) Newsgroups: net.rec.nude Subject: Re: Children and Social Nudity Revisited Message-ID: <2856@decwrl.UUCP> Date: Fri, 19-Aug-83 00:22:30 EDT Article-I.D.: decwrl.2856 Posted: Fri Aug 19 00:22:30 1983 Date-Received: Sat, 13-Aug-83 04:54:36 EDT References: <202@houxh.UUCP> Organization: DEC Western Research Lab, Los Altos, CA Lines: 23 I was raised in a family where casual nudity was the norm, and social nudity wasn't practiced -- not that it was frowned upon, we just never did. Had the occasion arisen, I'm sure we would have. I found that it didn't take me long to learn from my peers that what we practiced at home was different; I learned to shut up about it, and just pitied them -- I thought their setup was weird; they probably thought the same of me (all this during thos important (?) years of 9-13). I fully intend to raise my child(ren) (whenever I have some) the same way I was raised. I would tend to agree that being on a clothed beach is usually more arousing than on a nude beach, exactly because the mystery is gone. It would seem to me that most women have learned that what a garment covers can be more arousing than what it reveals (this from a decidedly male observer -- it holds true for me, at least). The viewpoints you quoted (Spock, Brothers, et al) were, to my mind, singularly North American. I don't think you'd find any Middle European child psychologists spouting such nonsense, and it seems much healthier to me. Cheers, Chris Kent