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From: ginger@ssc-vax.UUCP (Ginger Grover)
Newsgroups: net.singles
Subject: a bald question
Message-ID: <407@ssc-vax.UUCP>
Date: Thu, 11-Aug-83 17:15:07 EDT
Article-I.D.: ssc-vax.407
Posted: Thu Aug 11 17:15:07 1983
Date-Received: Fri, 12-Aug-83 17:43:31 EDT
Organization: Boeing Aerospace, Seattle
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Baldness can be sexy.  Honestly.  I knew a girl  who  had  a  mad
crush on Yul Brynner after she saw him in "The King and I", and I
know a woman who bought her first  television  set  just  so  she
wouldn't  miss  an episode of Kojak.  I remember them both making
essentially the same comment on baldness, that somehow that  bare
hardness looks "powerful".

Even a receding hairline can enhance a man's appearance -make him
look more intelligent, and/or give character to a face that, when
he was younger and possessed a full head of hair, was  attractive
but  bland.  It's too bad if a man who is losing his hair when he
isn't yet 30 feels that he has "lost it" as far as women are con-
cerned.   He's  very  wrong.  Maybe he has encountered one or two
women of his age group who do judge a man by  his  coiffure  -but
does he really *want* a woman who has those kind of values?

The trick of it all is to make the most of what you have and then
find  someone  who appreciates it.  You just make yourself miser-
able (not to mention monumentally insecure)  by  trying  to  meet
someone  else's  criteria  instead  of  your own, especially when
their's may be arbitrary and subject to change.

                                ssc-vax!ginger