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Subject: Re: Meeting Motos
Message-ID: <179@ecn-pc.UUCP>
Date: Thu, 25-Aug-83 11:45:30 EDT
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Posted: Thu Aug 25 11:45:30 1983
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I have been approached a few times by gays --- usually after I met
them a while before. Thing was, even though I made it clear that I
was not interested the individual would still exert some form of
pressure, subtle or otherwise. I am not the kind of guy that would
knock someone's head of at any approach of a gay (unlike some I've
heard of), but being open-minded apparently haves the person think
that I am not being honest or I subconsciously have some interest.
I take any kind of interest from someone in the spirit of flattery...
I think we all should. But if responding positively even though the
feeling isn't mutual, I feel like I ought to start having a more
negative response. Still, I'm sure not all gays are like that as not
all straights are like me, so:

1) Yes I would be flattered
2) I would accept the invitation if I felt confident that the person
   understood my position AS WELL AS respected it. Always give a new
   person at least one opportunity to fail rather than writing them
   off from the start...you may make a good friend.

A Nonny Mouse