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From: wex@ittvax.UUCP (Alan Wexelblat)
Newsgroups: net.singles
Subject: crazed lust
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Date: Wed, 31-Aug-83 16:58:15 EDT
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Posted: Wed Aug 31 16:58:15 1983
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Gary Cottrell brought up an interesting point:  how do y'all react to being 
"looked over"?  

I know that in my own case, I'm usually flattered.  I've never seen a guy 
looking me over, but several women have.  I find it, to be honest, gratifying.
I try to look good and dress nicely, and it's good to be appreciated.  
Usually, when I look over a woman it's with interest and appreciation, not 
with "crazed lust."  I'm often taken aback by women who don't appreciate it,
since I tend to forget that my attitude is a minority one.

My favorite episode occurred in my college Quad, where many of the bathrooms
are co-ed.  Another male in the suite was just stepping out of the shower,
wearing nothing but a towel, when a female walked in.  Being a visitor to
our suite, she didn't know to knock before coming in.  This fellow (who looked
like a Playgirl centerfold) is standing there in his towel.  The girl looks
him over from top to toe, then says "Excuse me," and leaves.  I think this
is great.  Other opinions?

--Alan Wexelblat
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