Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Path: utzoo!linus!decvax!harpo!eagle!mhuxt!mhuxi!cbosgd!ihnp4!ixn5c!inuxc!pur-ee!uiucdcs!uiucuxc!deb From: deb@uiucuxc.UUCP Newsgroups: net.women Subject: Re: Net Language Use (flame) - (nf) Message-ID: <2543@uiucdcs.UUCP> Date: Sun, 7-Aug-83 04:36:57 EDT Article-I.D.: uiucdcs.2543 Posted: Sun Aug 7 04:36:57 1983 Date-Received: Mon, 8-Aug-83 11:01:07 EDT Lines: 23 #R:machaids:-42100:uiucuxc:22800011:000:955 uiucuxc!deb Aug 5 08:47:00 1983 the real question is: does an implied/inferred reference to "men only" stop you from responding even if you are capable of supplying a valid response? if it does, then you are equivalently guilty of continuing the "gender gap." i have a hunch that the outrage you mentioned keeps a lot of women from responding, a lot of the time. language is a process of evolution. it doesn't always evolve quickly, it doesn't always evolve the way we think it should, it sometimes reaches a particular state of evolution before we're ready for it, etc., etc. although language is used as one means to express ideas, it is not synonymous with ideas. women must find positive ways to continue changing ideas and stop spending so much energy being outraged at language. sure, i get outraged/disturbed sometimes. and it's sometimes mandatory for mental health reasons to let that outrage loose.... as long as it doesn't take too much of my time. debbie uiucuxc!deb