Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site cvl.UUCP Path: utzoo!linus!philabs!seismo!rlgvax!cvl!andie From: andie@cvl.UUCP (Diane L. Donaldson) Newsgroups: net.women Subject: Re: feeling/being left out Message-ID: <550@cvl.UUCP> Date: Wed, 10-Aug-83 11:21:48 EDT Article-I.D.: cvl.550 Posted: Wed Aug 10 11:21:48 1983 Date-Received: Fri, 12-Aug-83 11:25:01 EDT Organization: U. of Md. Computer Vision Lab Lines: 32 The problem with using "he" for "he/she" is that children often don't understand the distinction. In some recent study or other, elementary school children were given a list of "neutral" sentences using the pronoun "he" (such as "Will each student return his book?" Over 60% of them interpreted the "he" to mean that the students were male. This attitude has an unfortunate tendency to carry over later in life. Although I try to watch my own speech, I myself sometimes jump to conclusions when I hear certain "sex-oriented" nouns, such as lawyer (male), nurse (female). And a sentence such as "Will each student return his book" can sometimes catch me too. When I realize what has happened, I don't immediately think, "Oh, what a neurotic nerd I am to think that a fireman is a man"; instead I think "Oh, what a stupid system that has made what should be a neutral choice biased towards one sex or the other, thus causing confusion." So, what do you mean by harmful? If "harmful" can mean "causes confusion in the listener or reader", then yes, using "he" for "he or she" is harmful. Incidentally, I suspect there are very few people that haven't been caught by the he = male trap at some time or another. That's why I always use "they". Diane ...seismo!rlgvax!cvl