Relay-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site utzoo.UUCP Posting-Version: version B 2.10 5/3/83; site spanky.UUCP Path: utzoo!linus!decvax!harpo!eagle!mhuxt!mhuxi!mhuxa!houxm!ihnp4!we13!burl!spanky!ka From: ka@spanky.UUCP Newsgroups: net.women Subject: Re: no men need apply Message-ID: <461@spanky.UUCP> Date: Sun, 28-Aug-83 22:46:02 EDT Article-I.D.: spanky.461 Posted: Sun Aug 28 22:46:02 1983 Date-Received: Tue, 30-Aug-83 01:23:50 EDT References: <1802@hplabsb.UUCP> <279@aplvax.UUCP> Organization: Bell Labs, Holmdel, N. J. Lines: 12 Re: The work is shared between myself and my wife (with the exception of parenting) Parenting is one rock upon which sexual equality often flounders. A couple shares the work more or less evenly until a child is born, and then the wife discovers that the child is *her* responsibility. This is not a criticism of anyone's marriage; there is nothing inherently wrong with a division of labor in which the husband does one thing and the wife does another. The important thing is that the division of labor be one that both partners are comfortable with rather than one decided upon because "that's the way it's done." Kenneth Almquist