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From: seifert@ihuxl.UUCP
Newsgroups: net.singles
Subject: Re: what do you do
Message-ID: <551@ihuxl.UUCP>
Date: Fri, 9-Sep-83 12:58:38 EDT
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Posted: Fri Sep  9 12:58:38 1983
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>      If you feel that you might like to marry the guy, wait a few days.
>      Try to extrapolate (if possible) what he might be like to LIVE
>      day in and day out.  If, after a few days of serious
>      consideration, you still think you would like to live with him,
>      and you still think that his character and yours would be
>      compatible, by all means, call him!  Were I in a similar 
>      situation, I would be exceedingly flattered and pleased if
>      the woman called me. Of course, even if you doubt you'd want
>      to marry him, but you still like him, you can go ahead and 
>      call him anyway, though you might have to handle the
>      situation a little more carefully (in case he is still
>      ardently interested in you).  
>
>      -- Jeff Sargent/pur-ee!pucc-h:aeq

Jeff, do you really mean this?  After the first date the only
choices are:
	(a) marriage (talk about short engagements!)
	(b) move in
	(c) "just friends" 

There seems to be a large gap between (b) and (c).
Whatever happened to second dates?

			Dave Seifert
			ihnp4!ihuxl!seifert